Who You Are: Finding Your Identity in Christ

(Updated on May 11, 2025)

Let's Be Honest...

We live in a world that loves to slap labels on us. You're only as good as your last success. You're defined by your job title, your relationship status, your bank account, or the number of likes on your latest post.

That’s exhausting.
And it’s not who you are.

The good news? God has something way better for you. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough, or like you’re stuck chasing approval from everyone but Him—you’re not alone. But there’s a truth that can change everything:

Your identity isn’t something you earn. It’s something you receive.

Let’s talk about what it actually means to find your identity in Jesus—and how it can transform the way you live, love, and see yourself.

Who Does God Say You Are?

When you start to see yourself through God's eyes, everything shifts. You’re not just another person trying to get through the day. You’re chosen. Loved. Redeemed. Let that sink in.

Here’s just a snapshot of how God sees you:

You’re Loved

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are.” — 1 John 3:1
This is your foundation. You are deeply, extravagantly loved—no matter your past.

You’re Redeemed and Forgiven

“In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace.” — Ephesians 1:7
Your mistakes don’t define you. Grace does.

You’re Made New

“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” — 2 Corinthians 5:17
Jesus doesn’t just clean you up. He makes you new.

Truths to Hold On To

God’s Word is packed with identity promises. Here are a few to speak over your life (yes, out loud).

  • You’re God’s child (John 1:12)

  • You’ve been hand-picked for a purpose (1 Peter 2:9)

  • You’re free from guilt and shame (Romans 8:1)

  • You’re His masterpiece (Ephesians 2:10)

  • You’re more than a conqueror (Romans 8:37)

You're not an accident. You're anointed.

Why Does This Matter?

Because when you know who you are, you live differently.

You stay grounded when life gets chaotic

The world’s approval changes like the weather. But God's truth? Solid. Unshakable. Eternal.
“The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God endures forever.” — Isaiah 40:8

You stop playing the comparison game

You’re not here to be a copy of someone else.
“If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.” — Galatians 1:10

You live on purpose

God’s plan for your life is bigger than comfort or popularity.
“I know the plans I have for you... plans to give you hope and a future.” — Jeremiah 29:11

So… How Do You Actually Live This Out?

Finding your identity in Christ isn’t a one-time thing—it’s a daily reminder. A rhythm. A relationship.

Here are a few ways to lean in:

Stay in Scripture

Let God’s voice be louder than the world’s. Read it. Reflect on it. Speak it over yourself.
Start with something like Ephesians 1.

Ask God to reshape your perspective

He knows how hard it is to feel like you're enough. Ask Him to help you see yourself through His eyes.
“I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” — Psalm 139:14

Renew your mind

What you believe shapes how you live. Let God transform your thinking.
“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2

Find your people

You weren’t made to walk this alone. Get in community. Encourage each other. Remind each other of the truth.
“Let us not give up meeting together... but encouraging one another.” — Hebrews 10:24–25

Serve with purpose

You were made to make an impact. When you step into who you are in Christ, you naturally start lifting others.
“Use whatever gift you have received to serve others.” — 1 Peter 4:10

When It’s Hard to Believe…

Let’s be real. Some days, it’s hard to remember who you are. Insecurity creeps in. Temptation feels strong. Shame whispers lies.

Here’s how to push back:

Fight lies with truth

Jesus didn’t argue with the devil. He quoted Scripture. You can too.
“Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:32

Lean on God’s strength, not your own

You don’t have to have it all together. He does.
“My power is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

Walk in grace

Mess up? Don’t hide. Run to the Father. He’s not done with you.
“If we confess our sins... He will forgive.” — 1 John 1:9

Confidence Starts Here

You can walk boldly into your day—not because you’re perfect, but because you’re His.

“He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion...” — Philippians 1:6

So when the world tries to tell you who you are, remember:

You are who God says you are.
Loved. Forgiven. Chosen. Secure. Sent.

Final Word

Your identity isn’t a label you earn. It’s a gift you receive.

So take a breath. Let go of the pressure. Come back to the truth.

You are in Christ. And that changes everything.